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Several of my friends are now into the state of finally deciding which call they are going to take.. for this I meant the call for Marriage..

Amidst the chaos of the government and the state of the country where we don't really know waht will happen next... Oh yes! love certainy IS in the air..

Close friends are now on their way to the altar.. so far this year I got 1 confirmed calendar date and 2 or 3 not yet deciding when but certainly this year!.. another is yet deciding whether it'll be the December or early next year!

With all the pleasant commotion up ahead.. I can't help but think.. how does it feel to finally take the first step to the married life? all I see now is happiness and love but, what does happen next?

I don't mean to sound so pessimistic but hey, it's the real world, life doesn't end like every fairy tale's Happily Ever After!! There are alot of broken marriages and broken families up and about.. a lot of divorces and mistress-collecting men!.. not including the battered wife statistics.. What about the rate of children not getting the right education.. plus drunkard and drug addict husbands????!! Not to mention the high rate of depression, and income loss.. plus the frightening silahis (closet) husbands?!?!?! whew!

hehe.. don't mean to sound so praning but hahay.. there's a lot of risks to take nga talga.

But.. clearing the negativities.. it all starts with one word.. LOVE

I myself have and had felt it. Certainly it gives a smile to any sad face.. the feeling of really loving can never be explained nor described, it just is there.. remembering the time I felt this certainly brings tears. Both happy and sad tears. The feeling of light-headedness and butterflies in you're stomach.. plus the blood surging thru your veins whenever you hear the persons "hello" haha.. lumalabas pagka-hopeless romantic ko.. the sad tears it brought when suddenly the person stopped loving you. :( most specially the time when though you knew he loved you, he had to let you go coz he can't fight nor give your love a chance.. hahay..

but eventhough love has come and gone.. I never regretted having it in my life.. it brought me happiness that I can now only remember and wish I could have again..

So now that my friends are on their way to decide to take and give this love a chance.. I'm happy for them.. for it takes a great risk to welcome someone in one's life.. yet alone having the vision of loving the person till the last breath.. hehehe..

Now I can see from them the vision that I always wanted to have (and am not really sure I could have) .. Seeing two people, wrinkled with age and happiness, their beauty long gone, yet eyes sparking with much love as they first saw each other, seating together sa isang park, holding hands as if they got the greatest treasure in their life.. and just talking and whispering their happy memories (memories of how they met, fell inlove, got married, raised their children etc.) watching the sun set, regretting nothing, and wanting nothing more in life but to spend eternity loving each other.

hahhaay!!

Love truly is what dreams are made of..

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